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87-year-old woman charged with second-degree murder in grandson's death, family outraged

Posted at 4:14 PM, Oct 04, 2019
and last updated 2019-10-06 10:09:41-04

BRADENTON, Fla. — The family of a man with autism is devastated after his 87-year-old grandmother is accused of killing him because of her declining health.

"He was a bright light and lit up any room when he walked in the door," said Yvonne Parks, the victim's sister.

That bright star was 30-year-old Joel Parks, his family called him “Bubby.”

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"He goes, 'bye, I love you, I’ll see you later.' And I said, 'I love you too Bubby, I’ll see you later.' And that was the last time I seen him," said Yvonne.

The next day Joel's sister Yvonne was back at her grandmother’s home at the Carlton Arms apartments in Bradenton, where Joel lived part of the time.

Yvonne says that's when she noticed Joel slumped over and not looking right.

"I was like, 'Gram, it doesn’t look like he’s breathing.' She goes, 'because he’s not.' Kinda with a little snicker in it," said Yvonne.

"[I said] What do you mean he’s not breathing, what are you talking about? [And she said] Oh, I’m doing us both in. We’re going together," Yvonne added.

Lillian Parks told police she purposefully overdosed and killed Joel because she would not be able to care for him any longer because of her declining health.

"His life was snuffed out for nothing. Because she didn’t have anywhere else for him to go or take care of him is crap," said Yvonne.

Joel’s family is devastated. His mother Tosha says Lillian tried to keep her out of Joel's life.

"For her to sit there and take it, not just away from me, but away from his sibling and the world that he touched," said Tosha.

Police say Lillian Parks was taken to a medical facility because of her physical condition. She is charged with second-degree murder.

But the family says that’s not enough.

"It was all premeditated and therefore falls under first-degree murder. His life was cut way too short, nothing like this should’ve ever happened to him," said Yvonne.