School Resource Deputy fired after improper conduct with a child with autism

Ural Darling 'taunted' special needs student
Posted: 3:59 PM, Aug 25, 2017
Updated: 2017-08-28 08:06:12-04
School Resource Deputy fired in Pinellas Co.

A School Resource Deputy was fired from Osceola Middle School after improper conduct with a child with autism, deputies say.

The incident involved Deputy Ural Darling and a 13-year-old boy who authorities say has the cognitive skills of a first grader and communication skills of a kindergartner.

The tense and troubling exchange only came to light after the boy's mother, Megan Dowdy, placed a recording device in her son's pocket. She tells ABC Action News, her son's behavior at home led her to take action.

"Kept getting up during the night having night terrors, screaming, having meltdowns for no reason," said Dowdy.

Dowdy was shocked to discover what the device recorded.

“Now let me start throwing books. You want me to throw books at you? How ‘bout if I throw books at you? Huh? You want me to throw these handcuffs on you?," Darling said. “Well, I told you to stop. I am not playing with you anymore.”

The sheriff's office says Darling forced the child to stand and hold up several books as punishment for allegedly throwing a book in class.

"You know goddamn well not to throw those books while I'm here," Darling said. "Well, I told you to stop. I am not playing with you anymore.”

"It's disgusting and disturbing that a police officer, or anyone who is supposed to be taking care of children or keeping them safe can treat a child the way he did," said Dowdy.

Darling was named Florida's top school resource officer in 2011.

"It made me sick," said Dowdy. "This is not a deputy of the year. This is someone who should have never been a police officer and should never be allowed around children."

ABC Action News interviewed Darling in 2013 about a bullying-prevention program. But now it's Darling who is accused of taunting a special needs student, even threatening to send the boy to a mental hospital.

“Is that where you want to stay for the rest of your life? Because if I take you, they’re going to keep you there forever,” Darling said.

Dowdy says her son is progressing at another middle school, but the audio recordings created a traumatizing episode for her loved ones.

"There's no words to express just how awful this is and what he doesn't understand is how much he's put our entire family through," said Dowdy.

A behavioral specialist, Marge Aspell, was present during the entire incident and took no action to stop the deputy.

“So you know not to throw ‘em at us. Because you won’t do it in front of Deputy Darling, but you’ll throw it in front of us when he’s not here. That’s wrong," she was heard saying on the recording.

The school district would not comment Friday if any disciplinary action will be taken against Aspell. But they did release the following statement:

“We are troubled by the details of the Sheriff’s Office Investigation into an incident that occurred at Osceola Middle School last school year involving Deputy Ural Darling. School Resource Officers are expected to work with students and staff in a respectful manner. We thank the Sheriff’s Office for their thorough investigation into the allegations against Deputy Darling.

We will work with the Sheriff’s Office to identify a new School Resource Officer for Osceola Middle School.”

Dowdy says he is unfit to work with students with special needs.

"It's like she eggs it on and does nothing to help my son and she has no right to be a behavior specialist or be around these kinds of children. She has no idea what she's doing."