How to manage the care of your aging loved one

As people grow older, they often are not able to manage their own care. Frequently, loved ones such as children or grandchildren are called upon to take control of an elderly person’s care. That could mean anything from managing that person’s finances to choosing an assisted care facility.

Unfortunately, these arrangements can create all kinds of problems. “Elderly people have always been targets of scam artists who are looking to take advantage of people who might be too old to defend themselves,” says attorney Martin Sweet of legal information website THELAW.TV .

Here are some potential legal problems:

·Theft – This is a very common occurrence and, in many cases, the thief is a close relative.

·Power of attorney issues – This often happens to an elderly person who is living alone. A scam artist gains the trust of the person and has him sign over power of attorney.

·False romantic relationships – These scam artists, often called gold diggers, are younger men or women who pretend to be in love with an elderly person to earn their trust and benefit in some way.

·Sibling issues – Things can get sticky when there’s money involved, especially when one sibling cares more about protecting his inheritance than making sure his parent gets good care at a respected nursing home.

“The first thing you should discuss is appointing someone to have legal authority over your aging loved one's assets,” suggests Sweet.

If your aging loved one has financial investments, he might need someone to manage those investments. Of course, you might have neither the expertise nor the time to perform these duties. If this is the case, you might consider hiring a financial advisor, such as a certified financial planner (CFP). Many CFPs specialize in handling the investments of elderly people.

Keep in mind that it’s never too early to plan for the final stages of your aging loved one’s life. Just a little bit of advance planning could ensure that those golden years don’t become a burden on them or you.